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The Perfectionist’s Antidote

March 14, 2018 By Joel Runyon Leave a Comment

Marty McCutchen is a long-time NBA referee – who recently was one of my favorite NBA podcasts with Zach Lowe.

Over the past few years, the player and referee relationship in the NBA has gotten more tense – with players thinking that referees have gotten worse and the refs thinking that players are acting less professional.

Objectively: refereeing is a tough job. It’s an incredibly stressful, complicated, and frenetic environment. There’s tons of opinions to be had, obscure rules and principles to reference and even if you could do a perfect job – someone would still think you’re trying to screw them.

To help mitigate some of the issues, the NBA has started releasing L2Ms or Last 2 minute reports where the head office reviews the last 2 minutes of the games and does and “after action” report of what calls the refs missed, what ones they got right and what ones they got wrong.

As Zach points out, nobody likes these – so he hasked:

Zach Lowe: Should the NBA have last two minute reports? Because there’s been a lot of … there’s been coaches, there’ve been players, they’ve been all over the place saying, “Why do we even have this? They don’t change the call, it just” … and the referee’s association obviously has publicly, I believe several times said, “We would prefer not to have this.” So why are we a) shaming the referees and b) making players feel frustrated that they got wronged when there’s nothing they can do about it. Should we still have them?

Monty McCutchen: I guess, for me, I know I’m repeating myself some here, but I believe these things to be true. That if we’re only going to judge people up against perfection then maybe some of those feelings you just articulated might bother. For me and when I worked, it did not bother me, personally, because I still met a view of excellence in my mind. Or I did not, in some cases, but I did know that whether it was put out in this excellent idea of transparency, that we live in a day and age in which we need to be transparent. That clouds and shrouds of doubt are allowed, then, to be interpreted in people’s own ideas and own biases and own prejudicial thoughts and by opening up that veil and saying, “No, here it is.”

You talked about this when you first brought this up, how overwhelmingly excellent we are, and…using the percentages you used, that met that standard of excellence, for sure. And when an L2M gets put out, and the only two plays that we miss are the only thing anyone talks about, then we’re missing the boat on all the other excellent decisions that were made within that time frame or within the timeframe of the overall game itself. And if we drive narrative towards this idea of were the referees excellent, we’ll keep working on the two we missed, or however many it might be in any given game.

If Marty focused on perfectionism, the refs would never make it on the court. Even if they called a game perfectly, someone would still be pissed – because that’s how sports work.

So he both recognizes that there will be mistakes and realizes they want to work on the things where they fell short, but he doesn’t stop them from being as excellent as they can be.

I was listening to this on my drive back from the gym and I had to pull over to write down this part of the podcast.

When people first start thinking about creating, they’re tempted to not create anything.

They’re waiting on perfection. They want everything to be perfect (but of course nothing is).

At some point (usually), they realize this. Then, they swing the other direction.

The motto “move fast, break things”, shipping MVP style products, worrying about getting it out the door, but not as concerned about quality.

The problem – is that if you do this too long – you get stuck shipping MVP level products. Without leveling up, you and your work don’t grow.

But excellence.

Excellence is the wisdom to know that while you can strive for perfection, you don’t let it paralyze you while knowing that “shipping” isn’t an excuse to lower your standards.

The lesson:

Train and execute with a standard of excellence. Keep yourself accountable to that standard and leave perfectionism for the talkers. 



Here’s the tweet thread that inspired this blog post. If you’re not following me on twitter yet, you should @JoelRunyon.

I listened a podcast recently with an NBA referee who made an interesting distinction between "perfection" and "excellence" when it came to assessing their work in a fast-moving, complicated environment with tons of nuance + perspectives.

(a thread)

— Joel Runyon (@joelrunyon) March 11, 2018

He was asked about missed calls during the game and if it bugs him that no matter what he does, some fans will think he's out to "get their team."

— Joel Runyon (@joelrunyon) March 11, 2018

He mentioned that if you measure based on perfection – you'll constantly be disappointed (which is paralyzing and demoralizing).

But if you measure based on excellence – you can actually do your work, while holding yourself to a "higher standard."

— Joel Runyon (@joelrunyon) March 11, 2018

Lots of people do this in their fitness, business, life. They get bogged down in perfection and never do anything, because it has to be "perfect."

They want to be perfect, so they never actually do anything.

— Joel Runyon (@joelrunyon) March 11, 2018

If someone becomes aware of this, the common reaction is to to screw perfectionism.

"Move fast + break things."

Go. Go. Go.

This works really well…until it doesn't.

— Joel Runyon (@joelrunyon) March 11, 2018

The problem is that while you can make stuff fast and "shipping" is liberating, if you're not careful, you end up with a bunch of quickly-made things.

This is not a fun place to be stuck at (if you don't up-level your work).

— Joel Runyon (@joelrunyon) March 11, 2018

Excellence bridges the two – acknowledging that you can train + execute while holding yourself to a standard of "excellence" without the paralyzing concerns of "perfection."

— Joel Runyon (@joelrunyon) March 11, 2018

If you're interested, the podcast was the Monty McCutchen episode of the @ZachLowe_NBA podcast. Worth a listen.https://t.co/Ix6GpvLb4W

— Joel Runyon (@joelrunyon) March 11, 2018

 

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